Thursday, December 29, 2005

Song for the Dumped


I'm totally devastated. For no reason at all last night Brenda suddenly 'needs some space'. After all, it's not me she says. It's her. Yeah right. OK whatever. If anyone wants me I'll be in the corner with my head in a bag and an electrical cord wrapped around my throat. I wasn't going to do an HNT being all destroyed and whatnot, but since it's post your favorite week here you go. This is my fave because it reminds me that once I was so in love I didn't care what happened. I had faith that kindness and complete honesty would carry me through the darkest days. I guess all that evil shit the ex's wished on me how I would get hurt like I hurt them came true.

42 comments:

Tammy said...

Dammit that sucks. So very sorry. Here's a (((((HUG)))).

Oh, and great shot!

Happy HNT!

Jodes said...

happy hnt

Furzl said...

bummer man. that really does suck.

Great pic. Happy HNT seem s alittle shallow right now

Jeff said...

sorry for your troubles man. That sucks. Happy HNT!

Wenchy said...

I'm sorry you hurting. :(

Chuck said...

Sorry to hear the bad news man. I hope the hurting doesn't last.

ZooooM said...

Oh my goodness. I'm soooo sorry. So sorry. I wish I could take that kind of pain away from everyone who goes through it.

I said...

*hugs*

gnightgirl said...

Oh! I got that punched in the stomach feeling when I read your first 2 lines. I'm so sorry to hear this, wish there were words.

Hang in there, doll.

lime said...

aww man. i am sorry to hear that. it sucks. here's to better days ahead ((((hugs)))

Flygirl said...

Well damn. I'm sorry Andy.

Don't tighten that electrical cord kay?

madgirl said...

aw im so sorry, andy :(

take care of you k?

(((u)))

awaterpixie said...

Awww Andy. Give her a little time and space if that's what she says she needs, but don't give up.

I'll keep you in my thoughts and prayers... yup... say a little extra one for you two.

Here's to a better New Year doll..

::smooches::
Mara

P.S.... fabulous pic

Lee Ann said...

I am sorry Andy, that stinks!

That is a gorgeous picture, wow!
Happy HNT and a very Happy New Year!

Angel Girl said...

I am sorry to hear about your sad news, but think of it like she's doing you a favor in the long run. We live, we love, and we learn :)

Happy HNT

lo sciocco said...

I'm so sorry to hear your news. What a way to begin a new year. Here's hoping things turn around for you soon.

Great photo though. Wow!
Happy HNT Andy.

Jillian said...

Andy: Sorry to hear the news! Keep your chin up!

Happy HNT!

Tish said...

Wow. Awesome pic. I'm sorry to hear your bad news though. Everything will turn out just fine, I'm sure. Hang in there! Happy HNT!

AndyT13 said...

Thanks everyone. Your good wishes are appreciated.

Evilicious Blonde said...

I'm so sorry darlin'.

MG said...

wow....that's an awesome shot....I don't remember it....THANK YOU OSBASSO for the repost idea, lol...happy HNT

gigi said...

{{{{{hugs}}}}}}

Check your email Doll!

Rose-Colored Beer Goggles said...

Bummer, sorry to hear this. Angel Girl is right... just give it time - you'll get there. Cheers :o)

the_mrs said...

Very sorry---best wishes :) Keep your chin up!

Happy HNT

Sher said...

Oh how I hope this isn't a karma thing.

Let her breathe, see what happens.

Cool pic though... :)

MamaKBear said...

Ouch...sorry to hear it...that sucks!

I do so love that pic though!

Happy HNT! Just remember, it's fixin' to be a new year...new beginnings! :)

Darkneuro said...

That sucks sewer water. My sympathies and I do like the pic.

Bella said...

Yummy...very sexy.

Bad timing, huh?

I don't think it really has anything to with karma or dogma. It happens to most of us. It's happened to me and I've done it to a few myself. I broke up with a guy on New Year's Night to be exact but the dickhead deserved it.

Cheers for a fantastic 2006. Cheer up, baby doll. Your blogger friends still love you. ;)

katehopeeden said...

Sucks, sucks, sucks.
I got dumped for the first time a few months ago. BLOWS.
((((HUGS))))
~K

Jay said...

happy HNT

nosouthernbelle said...

Ok, so looking as you do, it shouldn't be so hard to find a new woman. I know it stinks to have somebody you care about go though. New year = new possibilities!

Tess said...

Damn Andy I am sorry to hear you so sad. In the meantime, take a deep breath, unwrap the electric cord and try to smile a little. You look awesome in this photo.

As an extra bonus if you ask nice, hell if you just ask, I'll send you a flickr invite.....

Be well, be happy....Tess

ell said...

andy, honey, so, so sorry! that's terrible. don't worry, better times are ahead.

xxooxx

Pieces of Me said...

Hey beautiful!! I am so sorry that you are hurting right now! Thanks for coming by...HHNT! (I like the pic btw)

FunkyB said...

I just don't even know what to say... a woman who need space from a man who is intelligent AND plays guitar AND sing must just need to clear the lint out of her brain.

I'm sending you some mighty powerful hugs, Andy.

MomThatsNuts said...

Sorry your having a bad time....It will all work out!!!

Happy HNT

Mom

Boobabe said...

I'm sorry, Hon. Glad you showed some skin though. ;)

Better days are coming your way.
Happy HNT!!

Marie said...

I'm sorry, Andy. :( Heart ache...oh the pain is indescribable. I feel for you. To go back to the HNT pic, you look especially fetching and hot in this photo. Happy HNT, darling. *kiss*

barefoot_mistress said...

Oh mannnn! Im sorry this is happening to you, but, I am also glad that you can tell us....and that you went ahead and posted an HNT, mainly because you must keep your head up, look forward, and know that you are a good person.
Happy New Year, and Happy HNT, especially to you!

Laurie said...

Oh, Andy... I am so sorry to hear that! I'm stunned; you guys seemed so perfect together.. damn.

I wish there was something that I could say or do to make you feel better, but I know that there isn't. Just know that your friends love you a lot and we're here for you.

A good friend of mine told me once after a breakup, "Don't cry because it's over - smile because it happened." Those words gave me comfort.

(((((hug))))) Laurie

Laurie said...

ps - that is my favorite pic, btw!

Bougie Black Boy said...

41 comments and going strong! hmmm. nice pic.

Come to the city and i'll hook you up. But your love will be back. trust me.